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INTRODUCTION: AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT FEAR
Over the years of working as a counsellor, it has become increasingly evident that anxiety and fear are among the most common issues clients bring into the counselling room. Whether it’s the fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown, these fears can significantly impact our mental health, relationships, and career paths. This is where the power of affirmations about fear comes into play. Affirmations are positive statements that can help you challenge and overcome self-sabotaging and negative thoughts. When you repeatedly affirm your strengths and capabilities, you view these fearful obstacles in a more positive and empowering light.
Addressing your fears is not just about removing a barrier; it’s about unlocking your potential to live a fuller, more vibrant life. Fear can cause stress and anxiety and even lead to depression if left unchecked. It can prevent you from taking risks, trying new things, or pursuing your dreams. In essence, fear can keep you stuck in a comfort zone that’s anything but comfortable.
EFFECTS OF FEAR ON HUMAN BEHAVIOUR – AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT FEAR
- Fear can paralyse decision-making, leaving you trapped in a cycle of what-ifs and hesitation, preventing you from seizing valuable opportunities.
- It can erode self-confidence, making you doubt your abilities and worth, which may stop you from pursuing your dreams and ambitions.
- Fear often leads to procrastination, as dreading potential failure or challenge causes you to put off important tasks and goals.
- It can cause stress and anxiety, affecting not only your mental health but also your physical well-being, leading to sleep disturbances, fatigue, and other health issues.
- Fear can stifle creativity and innovation, as the apprehension of judgment or failure inhibits your ability to think outside the box and propose novel solutions.
- It may lead to isolation, as you might avoid social situations or opportunities for growth due to the fear of rejection or embarrassment.
- Fear can trigger defensive or aggressive behaviours, damaging relationships and creating conflict in both personal and professional settings.
- It can result in missed connections and experiences, as the fear of the unknown or change keeps you within a limited comfort zone, depriving you of growth and joy.
9. Fear often leads to a negative outlook on life, where pessimism overshadows optimism.
10. It can sabotage success, as the fear of not living up to expectations—either your own or others’ — can cause you to underperform or give up prematurely.
HOW TO FIGHT FEAR AND ANXIETY – AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT FEAR.
TAKE TIME OUT
By stepping away and allowing yourself a moment of pause, you allow your mind to reset. This doesn’t necessarily mean taking a vacation whenever you’re stressed—although that can help. It can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths, going for a short walk, or practising mindfulness or meditation. These acts of self-care create a buffer between you and your stressors, giving your brain a chance to process emotions and approach situations with a clearer, more balanced perspective.
BREATH THROUGH PANIC.
This technique involves taking slow, deep breaths, which helps to slow down the heart rate and stabilise blood pressure, thereby reducing the immediate physical sensations of panic. Deep breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, the part of the autonomic nervous system responsible for the body’s ‘rest and digest’ response, instead of the ‘fight or flight’ response. My Youtube video, ‘54321 Grounding technique to stop panic attacks’, can also help you to relax.
FACE YOUR FEARS.
When you face your fears, you’re doing more than just confronting something that scares you; you’re challenging the beliefs and assumptions that fuel that fear. For example, the fear of public speaking might be rooted in a deeper fear of rejection or embarrassment. By facing this fear through practice and exposure, you not only learn the skills necessary to become a more confident speaker, but you also dismantle the underlying beliefs that give the fear its power.
IMAGINE THE WORST.
This approach allows for a form of mental preparedness, where you acknowledge the full spectrum of possibilities and plan for how you might respond if the worst were to happen. This planning can alleviate anxiety by providing control over the unknown. It shifts the focus from a passive state of worrying to an active stance of problem-solving and resilience-building.
LOOK AT THE EVIDENCE
This approach encourages a mindset where beliefs and decisions are based on solid ground rather than speculation or worst-case scenarios. It’s about asking yourself: What evidence do I have that supports my fear? Is there evidence that contradicts it? Often, you’ll find that the evidence contradicting your fears is stronger than you initially believed.
DON’T TRY TO BE PERFECT.
Trying to be perfect often means avoiding failure at all costs, which can inhibit growth, creativity, and the willingness to take risks. Innovation and learning come from experimenting, making mistakes, and figuring out how to improve. By accepting that imperfection is part of the human experience, you allow yourself to explore new ideas and opportunities without the paralysing fear of not being good enough.
VISUALISE A HAPPY PLACE.
Engage all your senses to visualise a happy place effectively. Picture not just the sights but also the sounds, smells, textures, and even the taste of the air in this special place. It could be a real location where you’ve experienced joy and tranquillity in the past, such as a serene beach, a cosy corner of your home, or a cherished childhood hideaway. Alternatively, it can be an entirely imagined space to meet your deepest desires for peace and happiness.
10 AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT FEAR TO SAY TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE SCARED.
I AM IN CONTROL, AND I AM SAFE.
I CAN DO THIS AS I HAVE DONE IT BEFORE.
THIS SHALL PASS, TOO.
I AM RESILIENT AND STRONG.
I TRUST MYSELF TO NAVIGATE THROUGH THIS.
I AM A COMPETENT PERSON
I AM A CAPABLE PERSON
I TAKE THINGS ONE DAY AT A TIME.
I EXHALE WORRY AND INHALE PEACE.
THESE FEELINGS I HAVE ARE ONLY TEMPORARY
CONCLUSION: AFFIRMATIONS ABOUT FEAR.
In wrapping up our exploration of affirmations about fear, it’s clear that the journey towards overcoming fear and embracing a life filled with courage and resilience is challenging and rewarding. The power of affirmations lies not just in the repetition of positive statements but in the profound transformation they can inspire within us. By consciously focusing on our strength, capability, and worth, we gradually shift our internal narrative from self-doubt and fear to confidence and bravery.
By incorporating these affirmations into your daily routine, you can see fear not as a barrier but as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Fear does not have to define your journey; it can be a stepping stone towards a more empowered and fearless version of yourself. Please click on my book, Travel Light, a Handbook for Mental Health, as it will also discuss fear and how it impacts a person’s life.
DISCLAIMER
The information on Linda M Cowan’s Blog is only intended for educational and informational purposes. It is not meant to replace professional psychological or psychiatric advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, or if you think you may have a medical emergency, don’t hesitate to get in touch with your healthcare provider or go to the nearest hospital emergency department.
